Throw shade
Meaning
To subtly express contempt, disapproval, or disrespect towards someone, often in an indirect or non-verbal manner.
Origin
The art of "throwing shade" emerged from the vibrant, competitive ball culture of African-American and Latino LGBTQ+ communities in 1980s New York City, famously documented in "Paris is Burning." It wasn't about a direct insult, which could lead to physical conflict—instead, shade was a sophisticated, often non-verbal, form of subtle disapproval or disdain. A flick of the wrist, a pointed look, or a backhanded compliment could convey a brutal critique, allowing queens to assert dominance or express their contempt with wit and artistry, all while maintaining a veneer of politeness. This nuanced form of social combat quickly permeated mainstream culture, becoming synonymous with indirect criticism.
Examples
- When she gave him a dismissive look after his comment, everyone in the room knew she was throwing shade.
- He didn't explicitly criticize the new policy, but his sarcastic remarks definitely threw shade at its effectiveness.