In the doghouse
Meaning
To be in disgrace or disfavor with someone, typically due to a past transgression or mistake.
Origin
Imagine the early 20th century, when family dogs often had their own small shelters built outside the main home. To banish someone 'in the doghouse' was a symbolic punishment, a playful yet pointed way of saying they'd been relegated to the least desirable place, cast out from the warmth and comfort of human company, much like a misbehaving pet. This vivid image of social ostracism, of being literally unwelcome indoors, quickly became a popular shorthand for being in disgrace or out of favor with a spouse, parent, or boss, capturing the feeling of temporary exile.
Examples
- After forgetting their anniversary, John found himself firmly in the doghouse with his wife for the rest of the week.
- The boss put Sarah in the doghouse after she missed an important deadline, and her promotion is now on hold.