Give a wide berth
Meaning
To intentionally keep a significant distance from something or someone, often to avoid trouble or an unpleasant encounter.
Origin
Imagine a grand sailing ship, its canvas catching the wind, needing vast expanses of water to maneuver without collision. In the 17th century, mariners would shout orders to 'give a wide berth' to another vessel, a treacherous coastline, or a dangerous rock—meaning to leave a generous amount of space for safety. The 'berth' itself refers to the area a ship occupies or requires for safe anchorage and movement. This vital command, ensuring ships wouldn't scrape hulls or run aground, soon drifted from the bustling docks and rolling seas into everyday language. It became a powerful metaphor for avoiding anything undesirable, dangerous, or best kept at a safe distance, carrying with it the salty tang of maritime prudence.
Examples
- After their argument, she decided to give her ex-friend a wide berth at the party.
- The captain ordered the crew to give the iceberg a wide berth to ensure the ship's safety.