Black sheep of the family
Meaning
A person who is considered a disgrace or an outsider by the rest of their family or group because of their different behavior, beliefs, or choices.
Origin
The phrase "black sheep" originates from the pastoral farming practices of 18th-century Britain, a time when white wool was significantly more valuable than black wool. Black sheep were an unwelcome sight in a flock because their fleece could not be dyed and fetched a lower price, making them a financial liability to the farmer. This literal perception of the black sheep as an undesirable anomaly quickly translated into a social metaphor. By the 19th century, it was firmly established in the English lexicon to describe a family member or group member who deviated from the norm, bringing perceived shame or discredit, much like the black sheep stood out, unwanted, among its white counterparts.
Examples
- Ever since he decided to become a street performer, John has been the black sheep of the family, much to his parents' dismay.
- She felt like the black sheep of the family after choosing an artistic career path instead of following her siblings into finance.